The author posits that we are only susceptible to the manipulation of others because of our own internal tendency toward self-flattery.
Self-Flattery's Vulnerability
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
MaximsIf we never flattered ourselves the flattery of others would not hurt us.
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⚖Memory's Unfair Blame

Francois de La Rochefoucauld
MaximsThe author points out a common human hypocrisy: people are willing to admit to a poor memory, but almost never to a lack of sound judgment.
Everyone blames his memory, no one blames his judgment.
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⚖Love's Self-Deception

Francois de La Rochefoucauld
MaximsThe author argues that women often mistake the excitement of courtship and the desire to be loved for genuine passion, confusing mere flirtation with true love.
Women often think they love when they do not love. The business of a love affair, the emotion of mind that sentiment induces, the natural bias towards the pleasure of being loved, the difficulty of refusing, persuades them that they have real passion when they have but flirtation.
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⚖Heart's Foolish Master

Francois de La Rochefoucauld
MaximsThis vision posits that human intellect is frequently misled and manipulated by the irrational impulses and desires of the emotions.
The head is ever the dupe of the heart.
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⚖Strength vs Will

Francois de La Rochefoucauld
MaximsThis thesis argues that human failure is more often a result of a lack of resolve than a lack of ability, using 'impossibility' as a convenient excuse.
We have more strength than will; and it is often merely for an excuse we say things are impossible.
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